Here Is Why Paying For The Date Is Not Always About The Money

So, you’ve spotted this woman at your local Starbucks, or grocery store, or tagged in a friend’s Facebook photo. You’ve started up a conversation, and she has agreed to spend some time with you. Let’s keep it simple and say you go to dinner.

Everyone should be politically oriented. Read this post by a Facebook friend - Ekhaguere Deborah

It is often to hear people (Ladies especially) say they give no mind to Politics as it does not affect them. The reason why we should all reflect on this...

Thinking out loud

She sits down and puts her hand to her pounding chest. Thinks of all she has lost and will lose. All she has had and will have. It becomes clear to her that life is like gathering berries into an apron with a hole while walking along the road.

It takes a very high level of street wisdom to settle a fight, let alone a street one... Here's my story...

Have you ever been slapped by a man in uniform? A soldier, to be precise? If you've not, you may not understand my plight.
This happened almost six months ago and I still feel the hurt.

Set your goal and get it.

We shouldn't be as impressed with goal setting as we are with goal getting. Reaching new goals and moving to a higher level of performance always requires transformation, and transformation feels awkward. We just have to take comfort in the knowledge that if modification doesn't feel much or slightly uncomfortable, then we probably are not yet modified after all.

Be SMART. Be WISE.

It is a good thing to be SMART. It is a better thing to be WISE. But when you're smart and wise... WOW!

Nothing confuses me more. Lol

I'm still yet to understand why I would apply chloramphenicol to my eye and feel nothing in the eye but then feel a bitter taste in my mouth. I understand that there's a hole that links the nostrils with the mouth, but this? I don't get. It awes me always.

This song thrives where many other indigenous love songs have failed

I don't know why this 'Mama' of a song never stops ringing in my head and ears. Gets me nodding my head and sometimes standing up and grooving it whenever it comes on. Kiss Daniel murdered this one. #dopetune

Choices

You’ve got choices, like any other creature. You can stumble down that road, pretending you can’t help it. You can curl up and be mortified of regret and sorrow for what you’ve done. You can also get up and fight, even though the battle seems to be lost. The choice is yours and mine to make.

Satisfy Your Conscience

Make sure you're not one of those workers who get paid for a job they're not doing. Be you a civil servant or an entrepreneur, do your work diligently and satisfy your conscience at all times. A blessed week to us all.

They're Wrong!

They say most of those who 'major' in teaching about relationships and dating eventually get to have the worst relationships and matrimonial homes. Well. I love to talk and teach about these things, and I promise to prove them wrong!

Dating 101

One of the more common discussions I see happening regarding dating and relationships these days, is about the lack of actual dating that seems to be happening. Last minute texts to ‘hang out’ or invitations to ‘grab a drink’ seem to be the acts in vogue.

How much do you have to show for your 'wisdom'?

When you are successful or winning, almost everything you say and everything you do is deemed right and wise. But when the opposite is the case, no one cares about what you have upstairs.

Dare to do; Dare to be

When a new day begins, dare to smile gratefully.
When there is darkness, dare to be the first to shine a light.
When there is injustice, dare to be the first to condemn it.
When something seems difficult, dare to do it anyway.
When life seems to beat you down, dare to fight back.

Of Giving and Receiving

If expecting something in return is your reason for giving, you are really not giving - you're swapping.
But if you eventually receive something in return for your giving, what you receive is a bonus - not a repayment of a debt.